Moving Upward toward Civility Updated Again

By Rev. Lonnie C. Crowe

           

            (I first published this piece in November 2013.  I published it again in February 2017. I am updating it once more.)

We are today a culture of the uncontrolled tongue. News reporting too often becomes a shouting match.  Children have been bullied into suicide by the words of others.  Politics has degenerated into blame shifting and name calling. Comedy seethes with insults and character assassination. Many people go for days and weeks without hearing a kind word.  Incivility is devouring us and serves only to exacerbate the trials of our lives.

            We live in a world that is famished for an uplifting word.  It is time for the family of God to arise, speak up and speak forth words of kindness, life, and solution.   Paul wrote to the church at Ephesus: “Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:31-32--NKJV)

            While we must exercise our freedom of speech, we must also endeavor to speak the truth in love and to choose our words in the power of the Holy Spirit.  Although the following suggestions would be useful on the national and international level, they are beneficial on the grassroots level as well.  It is at the grassroots that the reformation back to civility must begin. 

        Let's agree together in prayer: “Lord, please send civility to our world, and let it begin with me.  I desire to speak out of Your love rather than out of my fear, low self esteem, anger and disappointment.”

Suggestions for more civility in dialogue:

1.     “Before we get any further into this discussion, let me point out where I agree with you.”

2.    “I appreciate the thought and effort you have put into this.”

3.    “We can disagree and still be friends.”

4.    “I am sure that if we put our heads together, we can come up with a solution that we can agree on.”

5.    “Please go ahead and share your concerns.  Then give me an opportunity to share mine.”

6.    “I have a problem with some of your ideas.  Can you help me to understand your thoughts?”

7.    “Let’s have this discussion over  lunch.”                                                                                                                                                                                   

8.    “Please” and “thank you” are still politically correct phrases.  So is, “It’s good to see you.” 

9.    Nearly everyone responds positively to a sincere smile.

Scripture admonishes us to pray for those in authority over us even if we don’t like their policies:  

     ^“Therefore I exhort first of all that supplications, prayers, intercessions,and giving of thanks be made for all men, for kings and all who are in authority, that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and reverence. For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior.” (1Timothy 2:1-3--NKJV).

What a thought:  I am more likely to lead a quiet and peaceable life if I pray for people, including those in authority, than if I complain about them. 

One of my favorite prayer-hymns is “Turn My Heart” by Lynn Deshazo based on Proverbs 21:1, “The king's heart is in the hand of the Lord, like the rivers of water; He turns it wherever He wishes.” 

Remembering that in His kingdom, we are all called to be kings and priests, we must first sing this song over ourselves.  Cultural transformation must begin with me.

Turn My Heart

By Lynn Deshazo

Turn my heart O Lord
Like rivers of water
Turn my heart O Lord
By Your hand
Till my whole life flows
In the river of Your Spirit
And my name brings honor
To the Lamb.

When we have allowed the Lord to turn our hearts, we can ask Him to turn the hearts of our leaders.  We can pray again with on a few word changes:

We will then be praying for the Lord’s agenda and not our own.

     Our Lord Jesus said, “A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good things, and an evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth evil things. But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned." (Matthew 12:35-37--NKJV)

Insults, insinuations and invective are idle words. Idle words do nothing to change anyone's opinion.  Remember "Insults are the last resort of insecure people with a crumbling position trying to appear confident." (Wisdom Quotes)

     Father God, today I pray Your word over my life and the lives of others around me.  ”Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O LORD, my strength and my Redeemer.” (Psalm 19:14--NKJV)

 

Considering the Mark of the Beast 

By Rev. Lonnie C. Crowe 

We know we are in the end times or seasons of the Lord.  However, we do not know how close we are to the ending of the end times.  One of the concerns of many in the Body of Christ is, as always, the mark of the beast mentioned in Revelation 13.  Are tattoos the mark of the beast?  What about body piercing and vaccinations?  I don’t know the definitive answers to questions such as these.   

I do know that the enemy cannot sneak in and give a Christian the mark and, thus, condem that person to hell. Ephesians 1:13-14 is one of several scriptures that negate that thought: “in whom also you, hearing the Word of Truth, the gospel of our salvation, in whom also believing, you were sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise, who is the earnest of our inheritance, to the redemption of the purchased possession, to the praise of His glory.”  As a friend of mine once said, “The devil cannot sneak up behind you and steal you from Jesus.” 

Two scriptures, one in the Old Testament and one in the New Testament, when taken together can us some insight into the mark of the beast. 

Deu 6:4-8: “Hear, O, Israel. Jehovah our God is one Jehovah.  And you shall love Jehovah your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words which I command you this day shall be in your heart. you shall carefully teach them to your sons, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise up. And you shall bind them for a sign upon your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes.” 

“And you shall bind them for a sign upon your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes.” Because of this verse, Orthodox Jewish men have, from ancient times unto the present, bound scriptures to their wrists and foreheads in small boxes called phylacteries whenever they enter into morning and evening prayers.   

The phylacteries are reminders that our thoughts guide what we do and where we walk. Proverbs  23:7 “for as he thinks in his heart, so is he.” 

Now, let’s consider Revelation13:15-16: “ And there was given to it (the second beast) to give a spirit to the image of the beast, so that the image of the beast might both speak, and might cause as many as would not worship the image of the beast to be killed.  And it causes all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and bond, to receive a mark on their right hand, or in their foreheads.” 

“To receive a mark on their right hand, or in their foreheads.” 

Oh, be careful little mind what you think. 

Oh, be careful little hands what you do. 

Oh, be careful little feet where you walk. 

 Decently and in Order

By Rev. Lonnie C. Crowe

As I have been asking the Holy Spirit for scripture to pray over our nation in this New Year and time of transition, the following scripture has come forward: 1Corinthians 14:40: “Let all things be done decently and in order.” While the context of that scripture is for orderly worship services, it applies in all areas of our life. It is beneficial to all when we conduct the affairs of our private lives, as well as policies and transitions in the political arena, decently and in order.

An operative word in the scripture is “let”. We might be led to believe that “let” means “God, You need to jump in and do this. However, the understood subject of “let” is “you”. Paul was writing to the church in Corinth and by extension to the Body of Christ as a whole. When he says “you”, he is speaking to you and to me as believers.

If we want business on the national level to be done decently and in order, it must begin on the individual level. “To let” means “To allow.” We must be willing as individuals to allow the affairs of our private lives to be conducted decently and in order to set the stage.

How can we do this? The following scriptures are just a few of the guidelines offered in the Word of God.

Romans 12:17-18: “Repay no one evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as far as is in you, being in peace with all men.”

Just because someone posts a vitriolic meme on social media, we have no justification to fire one back. Also, we must be certain to fact check to be sure we are speaking truth. We must speak truth decently and order. Sharing insults and angry words may cause our endorphins to rise up and falsely make us feel invincible, but they do not convince anyone and if accompanied by falsehood and half-truth, may even make us appear foolish.

As children, many of us sang, “Oh, be careful little mouth what you say.” God’s word agrees, (Matthew 12:36 -37) “But I say to you that every idle word, whatever men may speak, they shall give account of it in the day of judgment. For by your words, you shall be justified, and by your words you shall be condemned.”

Father God, we are thankful for Your Indwelling Spirit Who will enable us and teach us to do all things decently and in order. Then we will have done our small part in making it possible for all things to be done decently and in order in our nation.

The Peace Prayer by St. Francis of Assisi

Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace;

Where there is hatred, let me sow love;

Where there is injury, pardon;

Where there is error, the truth;

Where there is doubt, the faith;

Where there is despair, hope;

Where there is darkness, light;

And where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master,

Grant that I may not so much seek

To be consoled, as to console;

To be understood, as to understand;

To be loved as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive;

It is in pardoning that we are pardoned;

And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.