Friday, October 5, 2018

The Matriarchs: Part 2--Leah and Rachel, wives of Jacob

The Matriarchs:  Part 2--Leah and Rachel, wives of Jacob

Woman complements man.  Therefore, man must complement woman.  If it is not good for man to be alone, it is not good for woman to be alone. Together, we manifest the image of God.

If we do not complete, we will compete.

The story of Leah, the first wife of the patriarch Jacob, begins in Genesis 29:16:  “Now Laban had two daughters: the name of the elder was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel.  Leah's eyes were delicate, but Rachel was beautiful of form and appearance. Now Jacob loved Rachel” (Genesis 29:16-18 NKJV).

Laban was Rebekah’s brother. We see some family patterns here.  Rebekah had come up with the plan for Jacob to trick Esau and their father.  Laban devised the plan to trick Jacob into marrying Leah.  Later Rachel tricked her father by stealing the family idols. Reuben tricked Jacob into sleeping again with Leah by bringing mandrake roots to his mother.  Later, Reuben had sex with Bilhah, a act that declared a son’s intention of taking over his father’s position as leader of the clan.

Jacob loved Rachel, but Leban, because it was the custom for the older sister to marry first, tricked Jacob into marrying Leah.  Later, Jacob was allowed to marry Rachel as well.  He served Laban fourteen years for Rachel. Jacob fulfilled his martial obligation to both women.  Rachel was loved, but barren for many years.  Though unloved, Leah was fruitful.
The competition was on to see who could provide the most sons for Jacob.

Jacob’s sons became the heads of the twelve tribes of Israel.  Leah was the mother of six of those tribes:  Reuben, Simeon, Levi, Judah, Issachar and Zebulun .  She and Jacob also had a daughter, Dinah.  Later, Leah gave her handmaiden, Zilpah to Jacob as a wife.  As was the custom, the children of Zilpah were considered the children of Leah.  The two sons from that union were Gad and Asher.  Asher means “happiness.”  At last Leah was happy.
Rachel prayed for the Lord to give her children.  When she remained barren, she gave her handmaiden Bilhah to Jacob.  The sons of Bilhah were considered Rachel’s sons.
The first of those sons was named Daniel (God has judged). Rachel declared that God had judged her favorably and had given her a son.  The second son was Naphtali meaning “I have prevailed.”  Naphtali comes from a root word referring to wrestling. 

The competition was fierce.

After many years, “God remembered Rachel, and God listened to her and opened her womb. And she conceived and bore a son, and said, "God has taken away my reproach." So she called his name Joseph (Increase), and said, "The LORD shall add to me another son" (Genesis 30:22-24 NKJV).

God did give Rachel another son.  On the family’s journey back to the Promised Land, near Bethlehem, Rachel died giving birth to Benjamin.  “And so it was, as her soul was departing (for she died), that she called his name Ben-Oni; but his father called him Benjamin. So Rachel died and was buried on the way to Ephrath (that is, Bethlehem)” (Genesis 35:18-19 NKJV).

Ben-Oni: son of my sorrow and pain
Benjamin: son of my right hand or strength

The competition and trickery had continued.

Reuben tricked Jacob into sleeping again with Leah by bringing mandrake roots to his mother.  Later, Reuben had sex with Bilhah, an act that declared a son’s intention of taking over his father’s position as leader of the clan.

The competition intensified when Jacob gave the coat of many colors to Joseph.  That coat was a sign that Jacob was passing his authority to the first-born of his favorite wife, Rachel.
Joseph had 10 older brothers who took offense and sought to destroy Joseph.

The plans of the brothers failed.  After his brothers sold him, Joseph became a slave in Egypt,  and rose in power until he became second in command under Pharaoh.
It was under Joseph’s authority that his family was saved from famine.

When he was dying in Egypt, Jacob blessed Joseph with the double portion by blessing Joseph’s sons, Ephraim and Manasseh.  Though he was the second son, Ephraim received the greater blessing.

Genesis 48:13.  And Joseph took them both, Ephraim with his right hand toward Israel's left hand, and Manasseh with his left hand toward Israel's right hand, and brought them near him.
 14.  Then Israel stretched out his right hand and laid it on Ephraim's head, who was the younger, and his left hand on Manasseh's head, guiding his hands knowingly, for Manasseh was the firstborn.
 15.  And he blessed Joseph, and said: "God, before whom my fathers Abraham and Isaac walked, the God who has fed me all my life long to this day,
 16.  the Angel who has redeemed me from all evil, bless the lads; let my name be named upon them, and the name of my fathers Abraham and Isaac; and let them grow into a multitude in the midst of the earth.''
17.  Now when Joseph saw that his father laid his right hand on the head of Ephraim, it displeased him; so he took hold of his father's hand to remove it from Ephraim's head to Manasseh's head.
 18.  And Joseph said to his father, "Not so, my father, for this one is the firstborn; put your right hand on his head.''
 19.  But his father refused and said, "I know, my son, I know. He also shall become a people, and he also shall be great; but truly his younger brother shall be greater than he, and his descendants shall become a multitude of nations.''
 20.  So he blessed them that day, saying, "By you Israel will bless, saying, `May God make you as Ephraim and as Manasseh!' '' And thus he set Ephraim before Manasseh.

Ephraim’s tribe became the largest of the 12 tribes.  Joshua, who led the Israelites into the Promised Land after the death of Moses, was of the tribe of Ephraim.
From Rachel’s son Joseph, we learn that God seeks to bless, provide for and increase His people in spite of our shenanigans

We cannot forget Rachel’s second son, Benjamin.

Judges 19-21 records the story of the near extermination of the tribe of Benjamin.
 A Levite leaving among the tribe of Ephraim had a concubine who became angry with him and returned to the house of her father in Bethlehem in Judah. The Levite went to Bethlehem to bring back.   Her father convinced the Levite to stay for five days. On the fifth day, the Levite and his party, including the concubine and a servant, started out late in the day.
At nightfall, they came to Gibeah in the territory of Benjamin.  As was the custom, they went to the city square to see if anyone would offer them hospitality.  An old man offered them shelter for the night.
Judges 19:22-24:  Now as they were enjoying themselves, suddenly certain men of the city, perverted men, surrounded the house and beat on the door. They spoke to the master of the house, the old man, saying, "Bring out the man who came to your house, that we may know him carnally!''
But the man, the master of the house, went out to them and said to them, "No, my brethren! I beg you, do not act so wickedly! Seeing this man has come into my house, do not commit this outrage.
"Look, here is my virgin daughter and the man's concubine; let me bring them out now. Humble them, and do with them as you please; but to this man do not do such a vile thing!''

Apparently, all the men involved had adopted the mentality and habits of the Canaanites among whom they lived.  Notice the attitude toward women.

And the story gets worse.

Judges 19:25-29:   But the men would not heed him. So the man took his concubine and brought her out to them. And they knew her and abused her all night until morning; and when the day began to break, they let her go.
Then the woman came as the day was dawning, and fell down at the door of the man's house where her master was, till it was light. When her master arose in the morning, and opened the doors of the house and went out to go his way, there was his concubine, fallen at the door of the house with her hands on the threshold.  And he said to her, "Get up and let us be going.'' But there was no answer. So the man lifted her onto the donkey; and the man got up and went to his place.
When he entered his house he took a knife, laid hold of his concubine, and dismembered her into twelve pieces, limb by limb, and sent her throughout all the territory of Israel.

The other 11 tribes united against the tribe of Benjamin and demanded that the guilty men be given over for punishment.  When the Benjaminites refused ,  a civil war broke out.  After serious losses, the united tribes prayed, fasted and offered sacrifices to the Lord.

No mention is made of what the Lord might have said to them. 

Then the tribes set an ambush for the Benjaminites. About 600 survived the onslaught and ran  to the  rock of Rimmon where they remained for four months. The Israelites withdrew through the territory off Benjamin, destroying every city they came to, killing every inhabitant and all the livestock.

The men of Israel swore an oath at saying, "None of us shall give his daughter to Benjamin as a wife.

Then the people came to the house of God, and remained there before God till evening. They lifted up their voices and wept bitterly, and said, "O Lord God of Israel, why has this come to pass in Israel, that today there should be one tribe missing in Israel?”
And the children of Israel grieved for Benjamin their brother, and said, "One tribe is cut off from Israel today. What shall we do for wives for those who remain, seeing we have sworn by the Lord that we will not give them our daughters as wives?" And they said, "What one is there from the tribes of Israel who did not come up to Mizpah to the Lord?" 

After surveying the Israelites troops, they discovered that no one from Jebesh Gilead and come to the camp.

So the congregation sent out twelve thousand of their most valiant men, and commanded them, saying, "Go and strike the inhabitants of Jabesh Gilead with the edge of the sword, including the women and children. And this is the thing that you shall do: You shall utterly destroy every male, and every woman who has known a man intimately." 
Judges 21:  So they found among the inhabitants of Jabesh Gilead four hundred young virgins who had not known a man intimately; and they brought them to the camp at Shiloh, which is in the land of Canaan. Then the whole congregation sent word to the children of Benjamin who were at the rock of Rimmon, and announced peace to them. So Benjamin came back at that time, and they gave them the women whom they had saved alive of the women of Jabesh Gilead; and yet they had not found enough for them. And the people grieved for Benjamin, because the Lord (?) had made a void in the tribes of Israel.

Then the elders of the congregation said, "What shall we do for wives for those who remain, since the women of Benjamin have been destroyed?" And they said, "There must be an inheritance for the survivors of Benjamin, that a tribe may not be destroyed from Israel. However, we cannot give them wives from our daughters, for the children of Israel have sworn an oath, saying, 'Cursed be the one who gives a wife to Benjamin.'" Then they said, "In fact, there is a yearly feast of the Lord in Shiloh.

Therefore, they instructed the children of Benjamin, saying, "Go, lie in wait in the vineyards, and watch; and just when the daughters of Shiloh come out to perform their dances, then come out from the vineyards, and every man catch a wife for himself from the daughters of Shiloh; then go to the land of Benjamin. Then it shall be, when their fathers or their brothers come to us to complain, that we will say to them, 'Be kind to them for our sakes, because we did not take a wife for any of them in the war; for it is not as though you have given the women to them at this time, making yourselves guilty of your oath.'" 

And the children of Benjamin did so; they took enough wives for their number from those who danced, whom they caught. Then they went and returned to their inheritance, and they rebuilt the cities and dwelt in them. So the children of Israel departed from there at that time, every man to his tribe and family; they went out from there, every man to his inheritance.

Woman complements man.  Therefore, man must complement woman.  If it is not good for man to be alone, it is not good for woman to be alone. Together, we manifest the image of God.

Benjamin was the smallest tribe.

Two mighty men were descendants of Benjamin:
∙King Saul was a man mighty in physical power.  
 ▪The Apostle Paul was a man mighty in spiritual power. 

What about the sons of Leah?

On his death bed, Jacob blessed the tribe of Judah with kingship. "Judah, you are he whom your brothers shall praise; Your hand shall be on the neck of your enemies; Your father's children shall bow down before you. Judah is a lion's whelp; From the prey, my son, you have gone up. He bows down, he lies down as a lion; And as a lion, who shall rouse him? The scepter shall not depart from Judah, Nor a lawgiver from between his feet, Until Shiloh comes; And to Him shall be the obedience of the people.”(Genesis 49:8-10 NKJV). 

This prophecy had significance not only for for the sons of Leah, but also the Church.
In that blessing is the promise that the Messiah will come from the tribe of Judah, the son of Leah.  Leah’s blessings are not just for time but for all eternity.

About 400 years later, in Exodus 19:5-6 (NKJV), the Lord spoke to Moses about the divine plan for the twelve tribes, “Now therefore, if you will indeed obey My voice and keep My covenant, then you shall be a special treasure to Me above all people; for all the earth is Mine. And you shall be to Me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation.' These are the words which you shall speak to the children of Israel."

Moses, Aaron and Miriam were of the tribe of Levi, the third son of Leah
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When the tribe of Levi stood with Moses after the incident of the golden calf, God blessed them with the priesthood.  Thereafter, all the priests and temple workers were from the tribe of Levi, the son of Leah.

John the Baptist was of the tribe of Levi.

Jacob and his wives did not complement one another.  Yet, in spite of all the competition and chaos that continues until today, the purposes of God were accomplished.


Though our sins can be forgiven, though God can work in spite of us, we still must face the consequences, the natural result, of our sin.

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